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Ok, I am far from mid life but I am already facing a job crisis. Gosh…no wonder the lack of posts lately. My head’s been thinking, my heart’s been praying and my body’s been fidgeting over the possibility of changing career direction…I am lost! So many questions, so little answers yet so many opinions from everywhere. First and foremost, I wished GOD you are more transparent. Tell me to GO, I will go. Here now I am pondering, wondering, seeking and STILL seeking!

For the benefit of those who are reading this, it’s basically a tug of war between one job and the other. For my current job, not so exciting and slow paced but is stable and comfortable. As for the next job, it’s challenging, a little time consuming, perhaps will require me to start anew but open doors to wider horizons. I quite understand that I am a person who likes challenges but many concerns of life have watered down my enthusiasm. I get differing opinions from people. Some seems to think it’s crazy to leave behind a stable and comfortable job while others think that going forward, getting experience and adventure is good. I am always checking if this is all I can do. I still think I can do more than what I am doing now. Should I take the leap of faith?

So confused, I did a personality profile at Career Direct and here’s what it says…

General Description
As an Analyzer, you tend to seek perfect outcomes in all of your plans and projects. In many situations, you “take things apart” in your mind and think about ways to do them better. You excel at this kind of mental examination, but you may tend to see family and friends as “projects,” rather than as people.

Typical Areas of Strength
Analyzers, like you, tend to be analytical, logical, direct, confident, and they like new challenges. They excel at seeing the larger vision, creating efficient methods and procedures, and listening carefully for the facts.

Typical Areas of Struggle
Due to your tendency to focus on tasks, you sometimes show a lack of sensitivity to the feelings of family members and friends. When you are sharply focused on a task, you may come across as being overly critical, judgmental, blunt, or impatient with others.

Your Preferred Activities
To maximize your talents, you look for situations in which you can offer logical solutions to complex challenges, and you evaluate and make the necessary changes to assure the desired outcome.

Your Communication Style
You tend to provide insights and direction by teaching, managing, clarifying, and advising.

3 Comments »

  1. A friend Said:

    Aged old question – “To be or not to be, that is the question.” If you wanted to leave, you would have made that decision. Either decision you make has its good side and bad side. The question which is the best foryou and what you want out of life. Unfortunately, no one can help you decision what is best for you but you. You may be misreading the signs from God who may be telling you to stay. God is mysterious that way. :-)

    My opinion, stay. If you wanted to leave, you would have left without blinking an eye. Good luck.

  2. Christabel Said:

    Since you are very much an analyzer & facts speak strongly more than emotions, write it all down on paper. The pros & cons of both jobs and your strengths & weaknesses. Weigh the pros & cons 1st (like a risk benefit analysis. some risks are worth it because the benefits outweigh them manyfold). Then match your strengths & weaknesses against each job to predict what characteristics would help you rise to each of the challenges or cause you to fail (be realistic). There maybe some weaknesses you would like to put to test , strengths you would like to polish in a new job that you wouldn’t have the opportunity to do in the current position. On the practical side also, there are financial and time factors to consider (i.e. I have loans to pay but the new job is not financially secure initially, I have to put in more hours in the new job thus less time for my family etc). One could set a deadline to achieve certains milestones and if the new prospect doesn’t work out within that time, then you may opt back to the former job. Hope that helps.

  3. bellytee Said:

    thanks ken and thanks christabel. :)


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